Why do some women get treated like princesses while others are treated poorly? Society often tricks us into believing it's all about physical appearance. While cosmetic surgeries are at an all-time high, they don't guarantee a high-value partner. What many women fail to understand is that looks may open the door, but it's who you are that earns you the goddess treatment.

In between shopping, beauty treatments, nail appointments, and designer handbags, many women overlook the most powerful transformation—inner work.

Inner work is the ultimate luxury. Without a shift in consciousness, true and lasting change isn’t possible.

At Vivacious, while we cherish the finer things in life, our true mission is to elevate women through internal transformation—because when you transform within, it reflects in every aspect of your external world.

We live in a society where words are often used carelessly, and some women may believe they don't need to work on themselves to achieve success. But if you're here, it's because you're ready and willing to grow.

To make this topic easier to understand, think of entering the dating scene as entering a job market.

In the job market, `everyone wants the highest-paying role but not everyone qualifies, dating follows a similar dynamic.

Your potential employer won’t hire you simply because you’ve faced rejection elsewhere. While they may empathize, it won’t enhance your chances. They are looking for someone that meets their requirements, creativity and talent that stands out, someone with a “wow” factor to elevate their company.

This principle extends to dating and relationships as well. To attract a high-value partner with exceptional qualities, you must embody those same qualities. If you’re aiming for excellence, you need to reflect it yourself.

The Law of Attraction states: We do not attract what we want, we attract what we are.

What’s your desire? Simple, right? Yet, not every woman takes the time to ask herself this question. Often, we enter dates and relationships without a clear goal or direction, which can lead to getting caught up in situations that don’t serve us.

Many women don’t even know what they want because they’ve been told it’s unachievable, that all men are horrible, or that their desires aren’t realistic. As a result, we’ve become disconnected from our true desires.

I encourage you to ask yourself: What do you truly desire? You don’t need to have an answer right away, but start by asking yourself this question. Pay attention to what excites you and what you admire in other couples or in movies. Notice what lights you up and sparks your interest.

For example, Jamila, the founder of Vivacious, used this technique to uncover her own desires. Over time, she realized she was particularly drawn to power couples—those in the spotlight making a positive impact on society. This makes sense, as she's the founder of a brand dedicated to elevating women, so it feels natural for her to seek a partner with similar aspirations.

Desires are simply whispers from our soul, gently nudging us in a particular direction.

To be treated like a goddess, you must embody goddess energy.

Being a goddess doesn’t mean you’re perfect or flawless; it’s about knowing your worth and not compromising on your standards.

Being a goddess also means being willing to walk the route that many women aren’t ready to take. You are a woman with a goal, seeking long term, end game results. You move differently.

The key to attracting a high-value man is actually not focusing on attracting him.

Ironic, isn’t it?

When you obsess over a man, even if you don’t initiate contact, you’re still energetically chasing him.

The real key is to become the one he focuses on.

You are the Mona Lisa, and he is the highest bidder. You are the prize, and he is the winner.

How do you become the prize? Shift your focus to yourself—whatever that means to you. Whether it’s advancing your education, joining a gym, traveling, investing in personal growth, healing childhood trauma, or starting a business, focus on elevating yourself.

Mastering the art of being the prize involves consistently choosing yourself and improving your self-concept.

Many women think the game is about convincing a man, but the real game is convincing yourself that you’re worth it.

Become so focused on your own growth that you exude a seductive, alluring energy that magnetizes everything to you.

This is divine feminine energy

This is one of the areas where many women struggle, especially when we’re used to being in masculine, controlling, and chasing energy. We often believe it’s our responsibility to bring the connection into the 3D world.

Feminine energy, on the other hand, is about receiving, being in a state of non-action, practicing patience, and allowing things to unfold naturally.

Rule number 1 of feminine energy: It's not your job to make the relationship happen.

This means learning how to surrender and stop resisting how things might be unfolding in the relationship, all while maintaining your standards.

When we resist, struggle, and try to control, we inadvertently step into a masculine role (doing) in the relationship. This disrupts the polarity and can repel a masculine man.

Masculine & feminine = Attraction

Masculine & masculine = Repulsion.

3 ways you can be more in your feminine energy

1. Observe him, don’t change him: You’re not his mother or therapist. Watch how he acts and decide if it’s enough.
2. Allow him to lead: Let him initiate contact, plan dates, and guide the relationship’s progression.
3. Let things unfold naturally: If he doesn’t call when he says he will, don’t fill in the gap.

This is surrender: letting what’s meant to be naturally take shape.

By doing this, you magnetize your desires, closing the wrong doors and opening the right ones.

Hello gorgeous!

If you've found your way here, we believe its fate- you are exactly where you're meant to be.

You are an aspiring high value woman with impeccable standards and exquisite taste.

You are a lover of the finer things of life- those dreams others might deem impossible, but your intuition keeps urging you forward.

You, darling, are a luxury, and you deserve a brand that mirrors your exquisite standards.

We understand you because we were created just for YOU.

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