Anxious Girl represents the wounded feminine archetype. The wounded feminine is typically a woman who has experienced some form of childhood trauma, and as a result, she struggles to stand in her power. She’s often emotionally codependent on others, allowing people to treat her poorly due to weak boundaries. Her self-esteem is low, and she holds low standards for how she deserves to be treated. She plays the "good girl" role, avoiding conflict at all costs, and often dims her light in order to fit in.

The Goddess represents the divine feminine archetype. She walks in her power, free from past wounds, and embraces an abundant life. She is independent but knows how to receive, she speaks her truth, has strong boundaries, and holds very high standards. She allows herself to shine brightly without guilt and fully embraces her purpose.

What Sets Them Apart?

What sets the goddess apart from the anxious girl is their intrinsic state.

This refers to the underlying thoughts, beliefs, and emotions that shape who you are and influence your behavior.

For the goddess, this intrinsic foundation is grounded in confidence, self-worth, and positive beliefs. In contrast, the anxious girl’s intrinsic state is shaped by limiting beliefs and fears, influencing her responses and interactions with the world.

Limiting Beliefs of The Anxious Girl

1. "I am not good enough."

2. "I don’t deserve love."

3. "I have to fight and prove my worth to others in order to receive love."

Empowering Beliefs Of The Goddess

1. "I deserve love."

2. "My worth is never in question."

3. "The right people will love me for who I am; I never have to abandon myself for love'.

The Power Of The Subconscious Mind

The main difference between then Anxious Girl & The Goddess is their subconscious mind. The subconscious mind makes up 95% of our brain. Think of it like a software program running on your computer. Women who grew up in a healthy family environment typically have more positive programming, while those from unsafe, unhealthy, or abusive backgrounds might have corrupted software.

However, just like a computer program, this software can be changed, updated, and renewed.

Even if you weren't given the ideal program, you have the power to rewrite your subconscious mind and step into your Goddess energy.

Inner work: A Path To Transformation.

Inner work is the process of taking control of your thoughts, beliefs, emotions, and habits to transform into a better version of yourself. The truth is, you can buy all the Charlotte Tilbury products you want, but if your inner world is a mess, your outer world will reflect that. Inner work involves going deep within yourself to confront your problems, spend time with them, and heal.

In a world where society pressures women to follow fleeting trends and unattainable beauty standards, Vivacious Official offers a refreshing alternative. We believe that true transformation starts from within. By nurturing your inner self, you’ll naturally elevate and enhance your external world.

There are many ways to do inner work, here are 2 ways you can begin today!

1. Inner Child Healing

Your inner child is that little girl inside of you. As children, we depend on our caretakers for our survival, so we naturally internalize their behaviors and attitudes. We look to the actions and behaviors of those around us to understand who we are and what we’re worth.

A lot of times, a negative self-concept can be linked to childhood experiences. For example, if you had a father who was emotionally distant, absent, or toxic, you might have internalized those feelings and started to see them as a reflection of your own worth. These early experiences can significantly shape how you view yourself.

Positive Example: "When my father spends time with me and tells me he’s proud of me, I feel valued and deserving of love."

Negative Example: "When my father is frequently absent and often criticizes me, I start to believe that I’m not good enough or that there’s something inherently wrong with me."

When you don’t work through your inner child healing, relationships can be really tough. Your inner child might project its unresolved issues onto you and others.

A woman might find herself repeatedly attracting emotionally unavailable men, believing she’s drawn to ‘bad boys’ or that ‘good men’ are boring. However, this pattern could stem from unresolved wounds from her past—perhaps her father was emotionally distant. Until these inner wounds are addressed and healed, her inner child might continue seeking out what feels familiar, even if it’s unfulfilling.

If this sounds familiar, our Inner Child Healing Coaching Session might be just what you need.

2. Feminine Independence

One major issue with the wounded feminine is her struggle with independence and self-autonomy. This often leads to a heavy reliance on others.

As a result she often lives as a side character in her own life.

Feminine independence is a state where a woman takes full control of her life, starting from her mindset. She’s able to think independently, manage her emotions, and focus on her own growth. A woman in her goddess energy becomes the main character of her own life, finding happiness within herself rather than depending on others. This inner union makes her naturally attractive to others.

Achieving feminine independence involves setting healthy boundaries, moving beyond people-pleasing, and overcoming codependency. It starts with a mental shift before manifesting in actions. If you’re ready to embrace this transformation, our Feminine Independence Coaching Session is perfect for you.

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